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How to offer your heart the love it deserves

The heart is not just a mechanical pump that needs physical maintenance; it’s also the seat of emotions and needs mindful support.

Heartfelt, heartache, big hearted … the heart is used to describe many of our deepest emotions. But did you know there’s a powerful link between your emotional health and your heart? Since September is Heart Awareness Month, let’s have a heart for this incredible organ by considering the impact of our thoughts and feelings, and understanding how to look after ourselves.

Hearts and minds

It turns out your heart actually has its own brain – the intrinsic cardiac nervous system – and what we feel is conveyed between the heart and brain. In addition, how our bodies physically react to emotional things also impacts the heart. For example, stress causes a rise in cortisol and adrenaline, raising blood pressure and triggering the heart to beat faster. On the other hand, hormones like oxytocin, released in response to positive touch, can have a protective effect on the heart. Clearly, our hearts and minds are intrinsically connected.

Happy heart how-to

Of course, a healthy heart needs a healthy lifestyle, including exercise (at least 30 minutes of moderate activity five days a week) and a healthy diet. You should also keep your blood pressure, blood sugar and cholesterol levels in check, and avoid smoking and excessive alcohol.

But heart health goes beyond the physical; we also need to focus on emotional wellbeing. Your greatest personal resource that can be developed is your capacity to self-regulate emotions, and the greatest resource around you is the quality of your relationships.

Here’s how to get going …

  • Happy disposition, happy heart

It may seem flippant, but adopting an attitude of seeking out the good is priceless. Don’t pretend that tough times don’t exist, but consciously strive to live a joyful life. This is thought to reduce the physical effects of stress and, according to research at Johns Hopkins University, people with a positive outlook are less likely to have a heart attack.

  • Make connections

As social beings, connecting with others is thought to be as important to our health and happiness as food and water. Spend time with people that make your heart sing, be they friends, family or co-workers, and make a concerted effort to be present in the moment with them. Tell your loved ones how you feel, share a good hug and make a commitment to regular catch-ups. Even having a beloved pet helps, because stroking or cuddling an animal boosts happy hormone production.

  • Don’t hate, meditate

Research shows that regular meditation is a boon to heart health and is even linked to a lower risk of heart attack. According to mind-body medicine expert Dr Herbert Benson, you need to aim for 10 minutes a day to reap the benefits. Try this guided heart-health meditation to get you started.

Way back in 1628, physician William Harvey said, “For every affection of the mind that is attended with either pain or pleasure, hope or fear is the cause of an agitation whose influence extends to the heart.” In other words, your emotions directly affect your heart. It makes sense then, to look to our minds and aim for balance in all things, so we can truly live life to our heart’s content.

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You can’t hurry love. Give it time to grow

Nurture love wherever you can this Valentine’s Day.
The most romantic day of the year isn’t just for the young, the beautiful and the lucky. It’s a chance for each of us to embrace the healing power of love.

Valentine’s Day is all about love – falling in love, being loved and showing love. However, in this fast-paced world of ours, we forget to love the most important person – ourselves. Why not use this Valentine’s Day as an opportunity to love yourself, experience joy and learn to actively generate loving relationships?

Realise you are loved

After a loss or break-up, it’s easy to feel angry, bitter, empty and even unlovable or incapable of love. The first step to recovery is to realise that one person leaving your life does not mean you will never experience love again. There are people in your life who still love you. Just because this isn’t romantic love, doesn’t mean it isn’t valuable. Take a minute and think about what these people might love about you. Spending time with those who love you will give you perspective on yourself and what you have to offer.

Let go of bitterness

Smarting from a failed relationship? Feeling abandoned by a friend? There is a famous saying that holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Before you can move on, you need to forgive the other person and, more importantly, yourself. Everyone is human and makes mistakes – you are no different. The REACH method is the best way to forgive.

Recall: Look carefully at the situation upsetting you and try to understand why. Allow yourself the opportunity to feel the emotions that come with that.

Empathise: Try to understand the other person’s point of view, but without minimising the way you feel.

Altruistic gift: Remember a time when you wronged someone, and they forgave you. How did that feel?

Commit to forgiveness: Write down that you forgive them or tell a friend that you have. This will help to finalise it in your mind.

Hold: Hold tight to your forgiveness. Fight bad emotions by reminding yourself why you forgave.

Love is a choice

When you’re on your own or feeling alone, it might seem easier to simply continue that way and not to reach out again, but did you know being in love comes with a variety of benefits? People who are in love have lower blood pressure, heal quicker, live longer, have stronger immune systems and even feel less physical pain. With all these benefits, you owe it to yourself to at least be open to love and be loved.

Love yourself

Confidence is attractive: when you speak well of yourself internally and understand your own value, other people will recognise it too. Whenever you start thinking negatively, stop yourself and purposefully say something kind or motivational. If you struggle to do this, talk to yourself as if giving advice to a friend. The trick now is to get yourself in front of people with whom you may have something in common. Joining local clubs, going to gatherings organised by friends or even simple online dating have all been responsible for successful relationships. Try them all!

Give love time

The final step is to give love time. Making a meaningful connection is not something that’s likely to happen overnight, but if you keep putting yourself out there with an open and positive heart brimming with confidence, you will soon find yourself uplifted by the love of family, friends and community.

The relationship you have with yourself is the most important adult relationship you will have. It will influence your wellbeing and success. So, this Valentine’s Day, find your greatest love within yourself.

References

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